3 Things to do to Raise Your Orgasmic Energy

A Woman's Body is the mystery and wisdom of the feminine.

It is the temple, the treasure house of the divine.

There is nothing so complex nor nothing so subtle as the body.

As a single atom contains all the secrets of the matter, the body contains all the secrets of the universe.

Do these words above feel a little too far off the mark for you ?

Do they make you think “well that is alright for some, I just don't have time to be that in touch with my body ?

I get it.

With all the possibilities to be a wild woman in touch with her sexuality sometimes it can just feel overwhelming and too out there with not enough time to be with one self.

When I started on this journey of self empowerment through my pleasure I was sure I would have to foster out my child, find a patron to cover my living expenses and move to the jungle cutting myself off from all civilization just to find time to find my sexy self.

But alas.

I did not.

Here are 3 simple practices that you can do nearly every day or at least every 3 days to feel more and more in touch with your depths as a feminine woman and fall deeper and deeper into the secrets of your universe .

1. Pussy to Heart Connection.

This is beautiful to do before you even get out of bed in the morning.

Place one hand on your heart and the other on your pussy. You could choose to have your hand over your underwear or under your underwear touching your beautiful pussy directly.

In your minds eye visualize a stream of golden or white light connecting the two.

With each breath in, imagine the breath traveling from your pussy up to your heart following this stream of golden or white light.

As you breathe out this light is going out to the world around you. From your pussy, through your heart to the world around you.

Do this as many times as you like.

To add to the potency of this breath, squeeze your perineum muscle ( the one that you squeeze when you are stopping urine flow ) as you breathe in.

Let the muscle go when you breathe out.

2. Strengthen Your Vaginal Muscles Whilst in the Shower.

This is best done with a Crystal Yoni Egg. But if you don't have one you can use your fingers.

Kim Anami is well known for her prowess in the Vaginal Weight Lifting department with photos of her lifting items such as surfboards on Bondi Beach Australia, and coconuts n Bali.

But there is another way you can start to strengthen the internal muscles of your Vagina without using weights.

Simply string dental floss through your drilled Yoni Crystal Egg with enough length in the floss to hang down between your legs.

Once in the shower squat to insert your egg.

Once inside squeeze your egg with your vaginal muscles as you tug strongly on the floss string as if you were trying to pull the egg out.

Squeeze and tug, then rest, squeeze and tug, then rest.

The idea is to strengthen your muscles creating resistance to the egg being pulled out.

You can push the egg right up to your cervix and practice with that band of muscle group in your Vagina. Then shift the egg to the middle part of your vagina strengthening this group of muscle then the entrance of your vagina.

Yes.

Your Vagina has 3 sets of muscles in her. Isn'''t she just G L O R I O U S ?

If you don't have A Yoni Crystal Egg then using your finger is also going to give you results.

When you squat in the shower slowly insert you own finger ( Or Your beloveds !! ) and practice squeezing the three different muscle groups around your finger. This way you can get a real sense of the internal world of you Vagina.

The original Kegels exercise created by Doctor Kegel uses either a finger or metal tool inserted into the woman's vagina. To build muscle you need feedback and response which does not happen when there is nothing for your muscles to hold onto.

What doctors are calling Kegel Exercises today are not the original exercises and wont do much to build strength.

3. D A N C E

Yes dance.

Don't wait for the weekend and that club with your favorite DJ playing to get those hips of your moving. Dance every day. Even if it is just to one song in the mornings as you are waiting for your tea, coffee or cup of cacao to brew. Play that one song loud and go for it.

Happy feminine rising l o v e r s

Dive into the universe of who you are as w o m a n.

Always with Love and so much Pleasure.

Melissa Louise.

Sex Magik. It Is A Thing.

Personally I have dabbled in witchcraft for awhile...mostly all by default ..but using new moon, full moon and forests for many prayers you could call spells.

It was not until I discovered Sex Magik that I was truly turned on ( literally ) by fully owning my witchy-ness and began celebrating the act of casting spells out into the universe.

Discovering Sex magik meant I could combine my love for orgasms and witchy poo magic all in one.

Hell Yes. !

And it may seem like a load of woo hoo and only for crazy people.

But believe me it is the real deal.

Anyways..even if you don't think it to be true..what is the harm of giving it a go ? Any excuse for more orgasms I say !

Sex Magik is a powerful tool to use inside of your relationship with a significant other if you are wanting to draw in big things like a new home, a holiday, having a baby or changing jobs/careers.

And Sex magik is a damn powerful tool to use  S O L O !

I am all for mind-full masturbation and using your masturbation/self pleasure time mindfully towards your desires is a very powerful thing.

A few months ago I used sex magik in Mexico City in the airport.

Faced with red tape over the amount of hours my lay over was between Costa Rica and Canada I was being told that I had to repay for all of my luggage on my flights in order to board the second half of my flight.

I had spent over two hours negotiating with quite a few people behind desks and on phones and felt I had exhausted all avenues.

Travelling for 2 days already I was running on no sleep and had forgotten about this little piece of magic.

Touching my string of necklaces I made contact with my small rose quartz egg that is the perfect size for clitoris play.

“Of Course” I thought. There is always one more thing I can try,

Leaving my son falling in and out of sleep on top of our luggage I went off to the bathroom and got busy.

Very clear with my need to check in onto our 2^nd leg of the journey with all our pre paid luggage at no extra cost I was also wanting to be able to check in 5 hours early so we could just get through the gates and sleep before boarding our flight.

After spending time breathing, stimulating my clitoris and praying I returned to the customer desk where my son was now fast asleep spread eagled over one of his suitcases.

I was greeted by a man I had not seen before wearing a diamante snake broach on his lapel.

“Miss Boord” He said

“I am so sorry for all of your hassles with us over the past few hours. I will personally check all your luggage onto the flight and am happy to do that for you now even though the check in counters for your flight don''t open for a few more hours. Please accept my apologies for the mix up that you have endured'

T R U E     S T O R Y.

I have even used sex magic to have green lights all the way down Lonsdale Avenue in North Vancouver one day when I was extremely late for an appointment .

 I used Sex Magik years ago to get myself to Havana, start a business that allowed me to keep going there and gain a family in a city that I now call my second home.

Most recently this past week I have used Sex Magik both for myself and my Lover. Creating for both of us a few daily things that had to come to fruition. I needed to sell my sons bike that day and the text I received from my lover this morning confirmed a few things I had been self pleasuring over whilst we have been a apart.

There is no denying the power of Sex Magik.

So for the big things and the little things..Sex magik is a
F U N way to manifest what you want.

Here are 4 things about Sex magik you should know.

1. Sex magic is using your sexual energy to cast a spell.

Sex Magik uses your sexual energy (often an orgasm) to cast a spell. Casting a spell is just setting an intention and then performing a ritual to bring the intention to the universe’s attention. You can cast a spell with candles, jars, crystals and other trinkets AND also the most fun of all , O R G A S M S!

2. Orgasms are powerful tools to harness energy.

Everything has energy, and anyone who has experienced energetic, emotional and/or spiritual orgasms knows that they are powerful forms of energy. Aside from feeling good and being a hot way to connect with your partner or more deeply with yourself, some witches believe that the sexual energy within an orgasm can be used as a ritual to cast a spell.

3. To cast a spell, just visualize what you want as you Orgasm.

Words like magic, rituals, and spells can seem complicated, but performing sex magic is easy peasy. Literally just visualize what you want while you bring yourself to orgasm. Want to attract a new partner that fits a certain description? Think about them. Want more money? Think about cash while you orgasm— work less and orgasm more !

4. Masturbation may be the best time to practice sex magic.

You want to give your spell your full concentration.

With a solo practice write your intention down, create a space for mindful masturbation / self pleasure and state it out loud to God Energy / The Universe, as you orgasm. Keep that intention on your altar or under your pillow until it comes to fruition.

If you are using sex magik whilst making love with another then both of you need to be on the same page. Unless you don't tell them and you silently say your intention to yourself as you orgasm.

But really...that is not as fun as it could be.

If you are on the same page, then creating a little ceremony together can be as simple as both agreeing what it is you are wanting manifest and then whilst love making, fucking and being all juicy together keep on thinking about your desire and bring yourselves to orgasm together at the same time and both say it ( well groan, yell, scream and sigh it ) out loud to the universe together.

Sex magik.

You, Your Orgasm, and your Intentions.

Go forth and create baby !!


With Love & Pleasure
Melissa
xx

There is no point growing a moustache.

So Mo-vember has passed.

But what have we really learned?

Money was raised and pharmaceutical companies are hedging their bets.

The people – 0

Big Business – 1

Tell me.. what does growing a moustache have to do with prostrate cancer?

The cancer issue is in the prostrate gland.

Not on top of your lip.

Unless you are a man of complete surrender and openness and use your lips and tongue in delicious ass play.

But this kind of trust is hard to find.

Mo-vember is akin to the damn pink ribbon we keep splashing about for breast cancer whilst we continue with social sexual shame for women, omitting to teach girls and women the importance of breast massage.

Honey, no amount of pink ribbon is going to cure your cancer, but having a positive relationship with your breasts from the moment you begin to bleed with your menstruation will.

SO

Men where does this leave you ?

Well you guessed it.

God, the creator, spirit..who ever you believe made you, made you with an ass hole that encases access to your prostrate gland and basically your spiritual contact with god !

Don't believe me ?

You don't have to.

But over 5 000 years of Taoist tradition where men daily massaged their testicles and prostrate should do the job.

Mantak Chia , a man heading his field in sexual health through this ancient tradition has been personally told that the reason Modern Medical Doctors in the states do not perform prostrate massage for men is purely financial. It takes time for surrender, trust and pure openness. 

There s money to be made instead.

This whole moustache thing is all about your precious ass. About the illness hidden in it.
All illness or “dis-ease” is the result of stuck, unprocessed experiences and energy which needs to be released or it turns into disease, in this case, cancer.
Releasing all this stuff comes in all kinds of ways.


Daily massage and transcendent mind blowing sex are two of them.
The metaphor stands. Your ass holds onto a lot shit..both physical and emotional.
Growing a moustache ain't going to change that.
Changing your relationship and bringing new awareness to this part of our anatomy that holds and stores so much tension and tightness, will.



AS Kin Anami states, Movember is “Shove Something Up Your Ass” month! Where it is your duty to yourself, to your partner, and to the world at large, to shove something up there and loosen things up. Otherwise, that shit just weighs you down.
The “moustache.” is the secret code for “Please shove something up my ass!”
And for a new angle on the moustache image...does it not look like a pair of ass cheeks rising to the occasion ?

Yours truly.
Melissa.
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