Have you had an Orgasm from just Kissing?

 

Have you ever had an Orgasm from just kissing? 

 

I tend to ask this question a lot.

I have asked many a girlfriend and I also ask potential lovers.

Most of my girlfriends tell me they have not.

I ask my potential lovers this question for two reasons.

Firstly - out of curiosity to see if they have or not and secondly to gain a sense where they are at with play and possibility. Their reaction tells me a lot about what may lay ahead.

If a potential lover answers no,  but turns to me,  looks straight into my eyes with wander and asks me if I have had one? and how is that possible?  then that is exciting to me.

At the end of the day it does not matter to me If you have or if you have not.

It is how you react to the question that tells me a lot about what could lay out in front of us.

Did you know that

Your lips are 100 times more sensitive than your finger tips?

 

 

There are more than a million nerve endings in our lips: that's the reason why they are so sensitive. However, there is no protective layer on them, which makes them also quite vulnerable.

So to answer the question myself, YES I have.

Only once.

I definitely want to again though. In fact it is on my list of deep desires.

I was in my late twenties traveling around India. I was in Rishakesh and I saw a boy. I kept seeing him for days. And he kept seeing me.

Finally we talked. My heart was pounding and he was sweating and fidgety.

But I was leaving by night fall to catch a train to Kashmir.

We both looked at each other and knew that this moment was all we had.

In that moment his nerves left him and he found his ground. He stepped one bold step towards me, leaned in and kissed me.

This kiss was all we had. We knew that this afternoon was all there would be.

We had hardly spoken at all. We had caught many an eye gaze and smiled from a far for days, and here we were with the regret of not talking the day before, or the day before that, or even that morning.

So this was us. In that kiss.


 

That kiss became our complete communication of sensuality..

the complete experience of our bodies barely touching, our desire for each other and our hope. That kiss was also filled with the feelings of loss. Loss with some regret.

My departure was near and yet suddenly I did not want to go.

That kiss whispered so many words, that kiss danced my heart and sung to my womb where my sex stirred and my pleasure rose.

Everything was in that kiss. All of the receiving and all of the giving.

Sensual pleasure and orgasmic sensations that went beyond genital stimulation. 
Our lips were heightened where every movement and breath and desire creating a playground for our kissing.

This was the only place to be and with no further agenda to move elsewhere on our bodies orgasm rose in wave after wave up my spine from my thighs. As he held me up so I would not fall he also fell into me, held by his strong embrace, rocked by his own sensation of orgasmic energy.

YES
I would like to experience this again.

For tips on how to have an orgasm from kissing watch this video by Amber Leitz
How to Have an Orgasm from Kissing


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My Cacao Ceremony

My Cacao Ceremony

 

When life is a prayer then our breath is a gift .

All that is available to us from mother earth is a gift given freely.

In gratitude we in turn can use it in prayer.

Plant medicine is one of those gifts and amoungst the plants we can use as a guide in ceremony and prayer is Cacao.

 

Used by the Mayans it was consumed during religious ceremonies and marriage celebrations. Regardless of social status all Mayans used cacao for sacred reasons.

the word ‘chocolate’ is said to come from the Mayan word ‘xocolatl’ which means ‘bitter water.’

It may have been bitter water, but it was held in such high esteem that the Mayans called it the “food of the gods.” Cacao was so revered that images of cacao pods were painted on the walls of stone temples and Mayan artifacts have been found that show kings and Mayan gods drinking chocolate.

Due to it s high regard and it s use as a currency I actually had the thought last night as I was on my way to the ceremony that we were about to pray to (a form of ) money.

I laughed.

But it use to be serious and big business.

Cacao became the force of the Aztec economy. The demand for the cocoa bean and the beverage that it produced brought about a huge network of trade routes throughout the region.

When the Aztecs conquered the Mayans, they were forced to pay taxes to the Aztecs. These taxes were called “tributes” and they were paid in cocoa, so the Aztecs, who couldn’t grow their own cocoa, would always have a supply.

Cocoa beans were kept in locked boxes in businesses, and some enterprising Aztecs actually made counterfeit cocoa beans.

 

 

Photo and art credit go to the INCREDIBLE. Orly Faya

Body Painter extraordinaire

It was recorded that the beans was worth as follows...

hail the Cacao bean exchange rate

4 beans = 1 pumpkin

10 beans = 1 rabbit

10 beans = lady to stay overnight..

.how many beans for her to actually open herself in passion I wonder ??? ..

There is no coincidence that I am so attracted and activated by chocolate then !!!

 

The modern day allure of chocolate is a strong one. Especially said for women. Often craving the indulgence during our moon time it has many health benefits containing compounds that react with the body to limit the excretion of stress hormones.

But to use cacao, the original chocolate bean as a method in prayer and ceremony is a deep reverence for the plant and for the gift it carries for us all.

 

Many medicines from plants can be used for transformation. We can induce visions and release emotional blockages in intentional ways creating a sacred space for our higher selves to bring to our conscious what we need to see, feel and shift.

Using cacao in this way is a celebration of pleasure, of joy and of divine feminine energy. To meditate is to be honouring the masculine side of ourselves, to dance to honour the feminine aspect. I combine both in a ceremony where the dancing meditation becomes a prayer. Bringing forth intentions and desires to a place of reverence and celebration. In the ceremony I create the space where dance becomes the bodily expression of prayer.

 

Preparing the concoction of cacao , the brew is kept bitter, mixed with cayenne pepper and ginger and other spices. Last night , although sweetener was on offer no one used it. Using cacao this way allows the receiver to fully taste the bean in its raw form and sit with the energy it evokes.

It is strong, it is power full, it is celebration.

AHO.. to the mighty cacao goddess and may your moments of prayer be filled with the flow of dance.

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The great Noni Colada

Hail the great Noni Colada.

 

With Pineapple, tumeric, ginger and coconut water it is one hell of a super charger in a glass.

A super power super healer in one go , you cant go wrong with this being a part of your week.

Most cant stand the smell of Noni, and lets be honest , the fruit stinks.

For many putting it on their skin or in their hair is a definite NO GO, but if you can get past the stench then it is great for skin and scalp..apparently... my kid would just about move out of home if I did that..

mmmhhh hang on......... that is one way to be alone in the house !!!!

But aside from claiming personal space due to stinking others away, this super duper healer of a drink is a power house.

With coconut water packing your body with nutrients, antioxidants, amino acids, enzymes, B-complex vitamins, vitamin C and minerals like iron, calcium, potassium, magnesium, manganese and zinc.

You then have the mighty Pineapple blessing us with its wealth of nutrients, vitamins, and minerals, including potassium, copper, manganese, calcium, magnesium, vitamin C, beta carotene, thiamin, B6, and folate, as well as soluble and insoluble fiber.

 

Then you have Turmeric.

Tumeric has been used in India for thousands of years as a spice and medicinal herb.

 

Curcumin, found in tumeric is a powerful anti-inflammatory and antioxidant and you must take with black pepper to make it available to your body.

 

Ginger bestows us with its traditional use for pain relief, including menstrual pain. Ginger can lead to significant reductions in LDL cholesterol and blood triglyceride levels whilst assisting in the elleviation of nausia.

Then to all of that add the mother of them all...the NONI.

Noni has the nicknames of “The Tree For Headaches” or “The Painkiller Tree”. Studies have shown that noni reduced pain comparable to the drugs tramadol and hydrocortisone, making it effective for arthritic and other joint pains. Also known as a huge Immune system booster and Anti-tumor/anti-cancer Antidepressant/sedative. Noni stimulates seratonin and melatonin, two very important hormones. Affecting ones mood, emotions, and sleep.

Mmhhh all of that in one huge glass of GOODNESS.

Here's to YOUR HEALTH baby !!!

Just Great Balls

Balls of Chocolate

So these ones do not actually have any chocolate or cacao in them...BUT they are SO damn good that they should.

In fact I think today I will make a cacao version of them.

But for now here are my non-chocolate as good as chocolate BALLZ....

*Equal parts of Sunflower seeds, sesame seeds & raisins ( Sultanas is you are an Australian !! )

You can dry roast the sun flower & sesame seeds to add some extra special-Ness.

*A hand full of pepita ( pumpkin ) seeds, chia and hemp seeds combined

*and some melted cacao butter.. you know a small chunk..depending on the amount of dry ingredients.

Blend all together in a bullet type machine.. !!!

 

and Roll.

O-M-G-oodness .....just greatness.

No Sugar, No honey, No oil …. just plain fabulous-ness !!

**You could add goji berries or Inca berries too..mmmhhhh yes you could.

 **In fact you could do anything you damn well wanted to do !!

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Liquid Sunshine Tumeric Tea

Tumeric tea 

so... as it was included in a fasting blog and a little tricky to find..here is my recipe for sunshine tea again for all you fabulous people xx

 

to beat the blues into mellow yellow

First go dig up some tumeric root.

If you don't live in the jungle or grow your own then grab a hand full of tumeric root and a BIG chunk of Ginger root.

Peel and simmer in a pot with about 4 cups of water.

Simmer with some black pepper corns, cardamon seeds and cinnamon bark.

 

Simmer for 10 to 15 min.

Blend all together ( yes your blender will turn yellow and stain..but hay... it is a funky colour ! ).

Strain to remove pulp.

Blend again with a few table spoons of coconut oil and some honey to taste.

 

Yumbo

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The Art Of Ritual

Rituals

 

Rituals have played an important role for centuries.

Namely religious and spiritual based the act of performing rituals is something that we as humans have been doing since the beginning of time.

( I am sure I was there, but I just don't remember the details at the moment )

Our rituals become our habits. But in place of habits, rituals are moments we create to create our moments of prayer, gratitude and manifestation.

Rituals can also play a huge role in grounding ourselves into our day, at the end of a day and at the beginning of a coming together.

Rituals also play a role in creating a sense of safety and protection and a way to quell nerves before an event. Like going to a job interview, entering your house at the end of the day after a long day away, before a competitive event or when your child comes home from school.

In the late 1940s, anthropologist Bronislaw Malinowski lived among the inhabitants of islands in the South Pacific Ocean. When residents went fishing in the turbulent, shark-infested waters beyond the coral reef, they performed specific rituals to invoke magical powers for their safety and protection. When they fished in the calm waters of a lagoon, they treated the fishing trip as an ordinary event and did not perform any rituals. Malinowski suggested that people are more likely to turn to rituals when they face situations where the outcome is important and uncertain and beyond their control – as when sharks are present.

My rituals are a long way from shark infested waters.

But my favourite ones do include water.

On rising in the morning I religiously drink warm water with the juice of a lemon and a decent splash of cayenne pepper, to waken up my sleepy digestion.

I then do a combination of dry skin brushing, face washing with aloe vera and egg white and I say hello to my beautiful self.

In fact before I even get our of bed I smile to myself and whisper “Thank you Thank You Thank You” in immense gratitude to spirit as I hear the sounds of the jungle waking up around me.

After my self care I like to do some yoga and a few of the 5 Tibetans.

One ritual that my son and I make sure we do every morning is our Morning hug.

This entails us laying down on the bed or on huge cushions as we laugh, tickle and re tell our dreams from the night before.

This is one of my favourite ways to connect with my son.

After all of this my all time rock on ritual is self pleasure .

 

And to self pleasure by the river on a rock in the jungle is the best way for me.

I go down to the water hole on the property with my coconut oil and a rug and find my favourite rock to lie on.

And I walk through the jungle bare footed.

Skin on the earth is the surest way to connect to your

Wild Womban.

 

What ever it is that I am wanting to call in I think about and imagine having it in my life now.

With Morpho butterflies and hummingbirds flying all around I bring myself to delicious orgasm shooting my energy up to the universal cup of dreams and manifestations.

After this with the hugest smile on my face and warm fuzzies running through my belly I swim and exercise under the water fall in the water hole.

Pura Vida in deed. 

Pure life at its best.

Happy Ritual making.

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The Long Neck Women

The Long Neck Women.

 

Today I started writing the chapter in my book of my adventures in Thailand.

This particular adventure involves a girlfriend and I ( whom is just as badd ass as I am. We are from the same breeding ground you see. Small country town Australia ) hitching our way through parts of Thailand, meeting a Burmese man that was hiding from the Thai government and sneaking into the refugee camp that he had called home so he could see some of his family.

 

My friend and I were housed behind the tourist gates of the compound where the Dragon women and their families are held. Incorrectly referred to as the "long-neck" women, girls can be as young as five-years-old when they begin to be fitted with brass rings around their necks. To be chosen for this life ritual is a divine sign from birth with many layers involved.

Longer rings are added as they grow older, in effect deforming the chest and shoulders to give the illusion that their necks are abnormally long. 

 

With refugee camp # 3 just meters away behind the water well, many tourists do not realize that these women with their necks ringed in brass are actually Burmese , not from Thai hill tribes.

In the late 1980s and early 1990s due to conflict with the military regime in Myanmar, many Kayan tribes fled to the Thai border area.[

Not unlike a "human zoo," this northern Thailand’s Padaung Karen hill tribe village is amongst the country’s most controversial tourist attractions. My friend and I spent our days there taking tourists aside and telling them what was really going on and even showed a few of them the huge refugee camp just a few steps away.

 

When we spoke to those we stayed with many women talked with pride of their choice to wear the rings out of a genuine desire to carry on with the tradition. Yet for some of these villages have no access to electricity, roads, healthcare and schools. 

To get there we had to hide in safe houses at night and crawl our way through rice paddies to be met with open arms by a family living in a house made of card board boxes.

Making our way past the well we were then welcomed by our Burmese friends extended family where we stayed for three nights whilst he gathered more stories for the book he was publishing.

 

I have moved onto many other adventures, my girlfriend has been further a filed, had many babies and returned back to Australia, whilst our Burmese friend and off the beaten track tour guide has published his book “From The Land of Green Ghosts”, all those that welcomed me into their homes and hearts are still living in their state of no mans land with each day the same as the last.

Please. If you are in Thailand and you know others that are thinking of going to visit these people, know that the money you pay to get in does not reach the people that are on “show”. Go in, take good food and pay them directly.

Then protest that it should be happening at all.

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Food Foraging. Super Food Greens.

Food foraging.

3 super food greens 

 

Here in the Jungle of Costa Rica where I live with my 10yr old son we often go out amoungst the plants and collect what we eat. Barefooted and often in the rain we collect greens and roots to eat.

Below are 3 super food greens that are growing around our wooden house.

The Mayan Chaya

 

Chaya, commonly known as “tree spinach”, it could be one of the most important edible-leaved plants in the tropics. Requiring little maintenance it is an excellent source of vitamins, fiber, proteins and enzymes. The levels of Chaya leaf nutrients are two to threefold greater than most edible leafy green vegetables. Chaya is significantly more nutritious than spinach, amaranth and Chinese cabbage:

Here in Costa Rica most locals only know it as an ornamental or living fence-line calling it “chicasquil” which is kind of unfortunate as it is and incredible nutritious food left un touched. Except by us. We love the stuff.

But be aware... Do Not Eat It Raw !! toxic as hell really when not cooked. Chaya leaves and shoots contain toxic hydrocyanic glycosides. So you need to cook it for at least five minutes to rid the stems and leaves of the poisonous cyanide components, before adding it to your stir fry. We also use the leaves to roll up rice and other grains a lot like sushi. Tico style.

Next we have Katuk.

 

Also a dangerous leaf if eaten raw too long. As you can see it IS dangerous out here in the Jungle !!
Best to boil first if eating over many months to eliminate anti-protozoa properties.
We have been using it in our smoothies..woops. But up until now we have not noticed any of the side effects such as difficulty in sleeping or lung disorders such as bronchiolitis.



Aside of the danger eating it raw Katuk contains 59 cal energy, 6.4 g protein, 1.0 g fat, 9.9 g carbohydrate, 1.5 g fiber, 1.7 g ash, 233 mg calcium, 98 mg phosphorus , 3.5 mg iron, 10020 mcg carotene, 164 mg vitamin A, B, and C, and 81 g of water. WOAH !! All of this is in 100g of the leaves. Majorely katuk helps feeding mothers to bring in and increase their breast milk.
Other benefits of the leaf used externally include in the aid of ulcers and sores, Constipation or other difficult bowel issues and some skin diseases.

And now for the humble Spinach.

 

Introducing Chenopodium album also known as lambs quarters, or pigweed.
A very common garden weeds, Wild Spinach is edible and delicious. With a deeper & more robust flavor than spinach without that squeaky teeth feeling.
Rich in magnesium and potassium, more fiber, beta carotene (pro-vitamin A), vitamin C, riboflavin, calcium, zinc, copper and manganese than domestic spinach.

Why Food Forage??

It is free, you get to gather nutrient dense food that is tasty, food miles are non existence enabling your ego and feel good neurons to ping, you get to eat healthy organic food for free and you get to meet neighbours. 
Here in the jungle they would include monkeys, toucans, snakes and butterflies.


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AWEsome liquid fast drinks

Liquid Monday

Three Kick arse , keep your knickers on ( or off ) smoothie recipes to make you want to stay at home and drink all day !!

For a few years now I have wanted to get into the habit of liquid fasting for one day a week.

I have given it a try every now and then and sometimes I was in the swing of it , then would just forget, organizing to meet friends for lunch or something on the day I was meant ot be drinking juisces or smoothies or teas all day.!!! Woops.

AND as Frederic Patenaude....says

“If you haven’t given up caffeine completely and you’re starting to get serious headaches that impair your ability to work, have a little bit of caffeine. This is not going to affect the other good results you’ll get from your fast, but will get rid of your caffeine headaches. Think about ways you can reduce or eliminate your caffeine intake so that next time you fast, you will not get a caffeine withdrawal headache.”

But with a new found passion for it all I am loving my mondays filed with liquid and wanted to share some great recipes I have created which make the day a lot of fun and givng my digestion a break each week.

Papaya Joy.

Flesh of a whole papaya

Water from one coconut

A chunk of ginger

Aloe vera flesh.

A few raw cacao beans ( with the flesh dried around them if you can ! )

BLEND

Orgasmic Tumeric Tea.

 

 

 

A huge handfull of fresh Tumeric root

A large hand grab of ginger root

Black pepper

Cardomon pods

1/3 of a Vanilla bean

Cinnamon

Coconut oil

Honey.

Simmer the tumeric, ginger, black pepper and cardomon podes in a saucepan for about 20 min.

Blend this mixture in a good blender and strain.

Return the liquid to the blender and blend with the vanilla, cinnamon ( to taste ) coconut oil and honey .

DRINK

SO GOOD !

Black Sapote Awesomeness.

The flesh of a ripe black sapote

Coconut meat

Water or coconut water

Cinnamon to taste.

& if you like it sweet..a dash of honey..

BLEND..and DRINK

 

Beyond !!!

ENJOY ENJOY ENJOY

 

The Great Noni Colada.

The Noni Colada.

Behold the Noni fruit.

 

Scientifically known as Morinda citrifola or as the great morinda.. which I am sure none of you will know it as because lets face it... it is not a word thrown around.

Another great name that is used for the Noni is dog dumpling (Barbados) or Indian mulberry, nunaakai (Tamil Nadu, India) and even beach mulberry, cheese fruit, or noni (Hawaii).

 

What ever you call it most know it as the fruit that stinks !!!

 It is green at first when on the tree but by the time it has fallen onto the ground it slowly simmers as it ripens and turns white....ish whilst giving off a pungent odor.

An incredible Immune system booster that contains antibacterial agents that fight infectious bacteria. The Noni is antipsychotic, antifungal, antibacterial and anti-inflammatory effects which are valuable in treating conditions like arthritis and disorders related to central nervous system.

Even more so the noni is well known in the prevention of cancer, protection and healthy functioning of liver maintenance of cardiovascular health.

and it goes on..

So how do you enjoy this pungent fruit?

With THIS Noni Colada recipe....

 

 

Ingredients.

Loads of coconut water ( well one big one will do...)

a juicy sweet pineapple

Fresh ginger root.

Tumeric root

and a noni fruit..

BLEND ( I am loving my new Vitamix … )

After blending... strain..it is important to strain and not eat the seeds...

and Viola... Liquid healthy vitalizing sunshine.

Enjoy .. 

suggestions include.. sitting in the sun naked, or drink whilst in a fresh water hole. And definitely with other juicy sexy fun lovin people !!!

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Raw Chocolate Coconut Liquid Love Bomb

Raw  Chocolate Coconut  liquid  Love bomb.

 

From tree to glass.

Amazing but true.. all these ingredients come straight from the tree to your kitchen to make the most incredible liquid chocolate love bomb ever !!

 

Black Sapote

Coconut meat

Cinnamon ( mine was freshly ground from the bark yesterday !!! )

Vanilla Bean &

Cardamon.

 

Basically throw all ingredients into a good blender and mix !!

If you need to sweeten it UP...add some honey......

viola

 Incredible - ness right there!!

Behold the 

Black-Sapote  

a.k.a “the Chocolate Pudding Fruit”. 

 

Most who have tried this fruit will tell you that it really does taste very much like chocolate pudding  and has the same consistency too. AND they are lower in fat (than a store bought chocolate pudding) & contain about four times as much vitamin C as your average orange. 

Live on ALL things Chocolate.

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