Thursday 20 October 2016

Have you had an Orgasm from just Kissing?

 

Have you ever had an Orgasm from just kissing? 

 

I tend to ask this question a lot.
I have asked many a girlfriend and I also ask potential lovers.
Most of my girlfriends tell me they have not.
I ask my potential lovers this question for two reasons.
Firstly - out of curiosity to see if they have or not and secondly to gain a sense where they are at with play and possibility. Their reaction tells me a lot about what may lay ahead.
If a potential lover answers no,  but turns to me,  looks straight into my eyes with wander and asks me if I have had one? and how is that possible?  then that is exciting to me.
At the end of the day it does not matter to me If you have or if you have not.
It is how you react to the question that tells me a lot about what could lay out in front of us.

Did you know that

Your lips are 100 times more sensitive than your finger tips?

 

 

There are more than a million nerve endings in our lips: that's the reason why they are so sensitive. However, there is no protective layer on them, which makes them also quite vulnerable.


So to answer the question myself, YES I have.
Only once.
I definitely want to again though. In fact it is on my list of deep desires.

I was in my late twenties traveling around India. I was in Rishakesh and I saw a boy. I kept seeing him for days. And he kept seeing me.
Finally we talked. My heart was pounding and he was sweating and fidgety.
But I was leaving by night fall to catch a train to Kashmir.
We both looked at each other and knew that this moment was all we had.
In that moment his nerves left him and he found his ground. He stepped one bold step towards me, leaned in and kissed me.
This kiss was all we had. We knew that this afternoon was all there would be.
We had hardly spoken at all. We had caught many an eye gaze and smiled from a far for days, and here we were with the regret of not talking the day before, or the day before that, or even that morning.
So this was us. In that kiss.


 
That kiss became our complete communication of sensuality..
the complete experience of our bodies barely touching, our desire for each other and our hope. That kiss was also filled with the feelings of loss. Loss with some regret.
My departure was near and yet suddenly I did not want to go.
That kiss whispered so many words, that kiss danced my heart and sung to my womb where my sex stirred and my pleasure rose.
Everything was in that kiss. All of the receiving and all of the giving.
Sensual pleasure and orgasmic sensations that went beyond genital stimulation. 
Our lips were heightened where every movement and breath and desire creating a playground for our kissing.
This was the only place to be and with no further agenda to move elsewhere on our bodies orgasm rose in wave after wave up my spine from my thighs. As he held me up so I would not fall he also fell into me, held by his strong embrace, rocked by his own sensation of orgasmic energy.

YES
I would like to experience this again.

For tips on how to have an orgasm from kissing watch this video by Amber Leitz
How to Have an Orgasm from Kissing


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Thursday 13 October 2016

My Cacao Ceremony


My Cacao Ceremony

 

When life is a prayer then our breath is a gift .
All that is available to us from mother earth is a gift given freely.
In gratitude we in turn can use it in prayer.

Plant medicine is one of those gifts and amoungst the plants we can use as a guide in ceremony and prayer is Cacao.



 

Used by the Mayans it was consumed during religious ceremonies and marriage celebrations. Regardless of social status all Mayans used cacao for sacred reasons.
the word ‘chocolate’ is said to come from the Mayan word ‘xocolatl’ which means ‘bitter water.’

It may have been bitter water, but it was held in such high esteem that the Mayans called it the “food of the gods.” Cacao was so revered that images of cacao pods were painted on the walls of stone temples and Mayan artifacts have been found that show kings and Mayan gods drinking chocolate.






Due to it s high regard and it s use as a currency I actually had the thought last night as I was on my way to the ceremony that we were about to pray to (a form of ) money.
I laughed.

But it use to be serious and big business.


Cacao became the force of the Aztec economy. The demand for the cocoa bean and the beverage that it produced brought about a huge network of trade routes throughout the region.
When the Aztecs conquered the Mayans, they were forced to pay taxes to the Aztecs. These taxes were called “tributes” and they were paid in cocoa, so the Aztecs, who couldn’t grow their own cocoa, would always have a supply.

Cocoa beans were kept in locked boxes in businesses, and some enterprising Aztecs actually made counterfeit cocoa beans.
 
 
Photo and art credit go to the INCREDIBLE. Orly Faya
Body Painter extraordinaire

It was recorded that the beans was worth as follows...
hail the Cacao bean exchange rate
4 beans = 1 pumpkin
10 beans = 1 rabbit
10 beans = lady to stay overnight..
.how many beans for her to actually open herself in passion I wonder ??? ..
There is no coincidence that I am so attracted and activated by chocolate then !!!

 


The modern day allure of chocolate is a strong one. Especially said for women. Often craving the indulgence during our moon time it has many health benefits containing compounds that react with the body to limit the excretion of stress hormones.
But to use cacao, the original chocolate bean as a method in prayer and ceremony is a deep reverence for the plant and for the gift it carries for us all.

 

Many medicines from plants can be used for transformation. We can induce visions and release emotional blockages in intentional ways creating a sacred space for our higher selves to bring to our conscious what we need to see, feel and shift.

Using cacao in this way is a celebration of pleasure, of joy and of divine feminine energy. To meditate is to be honouring the masculine side of ourselves, to dance to honour the feminine aspect. I combine both in a ceremony where the dancing meditation becomes a prayer. Bringing forth intentions and desires to a place of reverence and celebration. In the ceremony I create the space where dance becomes the bodily expression of prayer.


 

Preparing the concoction of cacao , the brew is kept bitter, mixed with cayenne pepper and ginger and other spices. Last night , although sweetener was on offer no one used it. Using cacao this way allows the receiver to fully taste the bean in its raw form and sit with the energy it evokes.

It is strong, it is power full, it is celebration.

AHO.. to the mighty cacao goddess and may your moments of prayer be filled with the flow of dance.


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Tuesday 11 October 2016

The great Noni Colada


Hail the great Noni Colada.

 


With Pineapple, tumeric, ginger and coconut water it is one hell of a super charger in a glass.
A super power super healer in one go , you cant go wrong with this being a part of your week.

Most cant stand the smell of Noni, and lets be honest , the fruit stinks.
For many putting it on their skin or in their hair is a definite NO GO, but if you can get past the stench then it is great for skin and scalp..apparently... my kid would just about move out of home if I did that..
mmmhhh hang on......... that is one way to be alone in the house !!!!

But aside from claiming personal space due to stinking others away, this super duper healer of a drink is a power house.




With coconut water packing your body with nutrients, antioxidants, amino acids, enzymes, B-complex vitamins, vitamin C and minerals like iron, calcium, potassium, magnesium, manganese and zinc.

You then have the mighty Pineapple blessing us with its wealth of nutrients, vitamins, and minerals, including potassium, copper, manganese, calcium, magnesium, vitamin C, beta carotene, thiamin, B6, and folate, as well as soluble and insoluble fiber.



 

Then you have Turmeric.
Tumeric has been used in India for thousands of years as a spice and medicinal herb.

 
Curcumin, found in tumeric is a powerful anti-inflammatory and antioxidant and you must take with black pepper to make it available to your body.



 
Ginger bestows us with its traditional use for pain relief, including menstrual pain. Ginger can lead to significant reductions in LDL cholesterol and blood triglyceride levels whilst assisting in the elleviation of nausia.


Then to all of that add the mother of them all...the NONI.



Noni has the nicknames of “The Tree For Headaches” or “The Painkiller Tree”. Studies have shown that noni reduced pain comparable to the drugs tramadol and hydrocortisone, making it effective for arthritic and other joint pains. Also known as a huge Immune system booster and Anti-tumor/anti-cancer Antidepressant/sedative. Noni stimulates seratonin and melatonin, two very important hormones. Affecting ones mood, emotions, and sleep.


Mmhhh all of that in one huge glass of GOODNESS.


Here's to YOUR HEALTH baby !!!